A Visit With Jesus
Difficult Sayings of Jesus

 Become Like Children

Illustration of Become Like Children
Jesus' Saying Unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
WHY IS THIS DIFFICULT?
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What characteristic of children does Jesus have in mind: innocence, humility, dependence, low social status, or something else?

 Understanding the Saying

When the disciples ask who is greatest in the kingdom of heaven, Jesus places a child among them and says that unless they change and become like children they will never enter the kingdom. Modern readers often assume that Jesus means children are innocent, trusting, curious, or naturally pure.

Those qualities may sometimes describe children, but they are not the most obvious point in this particular conversation. The disciples have asked about status and greatness.

 Interpretations

Children were loved within ancient families, but they did not possess the social standing, authority, and independence that modern Western culture sometimes associates with the idealized child. They were dependent upon others and occupied a low place in the hierarchy of status.

That makes Jesus' action provocative. The disciples want to know who stands highest. Jesus places before them someone who represents little status and tells them to become like that person.

Matthew makes humility explicit: “Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” The primary comparison therefore concerns status and humility rather than childish innocence.

Dependence may also be part of the picture. A child cannot establish an independent position through wealth, rank, or accomplishment in the way an adult attempts to do. Entry into God's kingdom cannot be treated as an achievement establishing superiority over others.

Jesus then moves from becoming like a child to welcoming one. The lesson is therefore not merely an inward attitude. True greatness changes how disciples treat people who possess little status or power.

Helpful Background

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 Assessment

The surrounding question about greatness and Jesus' explicit reference to humility make low status and dependence the strongest interpretation. “Become like children” should not be sentimentalized into a list of every attractive quality adults associate with childhood.

Jesus reverses the disciples' question. They ask how to become important; he tells them to identify with someone who is not important by ordinary measures. Greatness in the kingdom is found by relinquishing the pursuit of greatness itself.

Why It Matters

Religious communities can reproduce the same contests for recognition, rank, and influence found everywhere else. Jesus places a child in the middle of that competition and overturns its assumptions. The measure of kingdom greatness is not how many people recognize our importance but whether we can humble ourselves and welcome those from whom we gain no status in return.

 Sources & Further Reading

Dorothy J. Weaver, ““Do you hear what these are saying?” (Mt 21:16): Children and their role within Matthew's narrative”, HTS Teologiese Studies/Theological Studies 75, no. 4 (2019), article a5513, 2019

Provides first-century social context for children in Matthew, emphasizing their low social standing, vulnerability, and powerlessness and thereby illuminating Jesus' response to the disciples' question about greatness.