A Visit With Jesus

 Difficult Sayings of Jesus

Some statements made by Jesus can sound startling, puzzling, or even contradictory when they are separated from their language, setting, and biblical background. This collection examines those difficult sayings directly.

Each entry explains why the saying has caused difficulty, presents interpretations that have received serious consideration, and offers an assessment of what the saying most likely means.

Illustration of Let the Dead Bury Their Dead

Let the Dead Bury Their Dead

  Matthew 8:21-22; Luke 9:59-60
Cultural Context Figurative Language Ethical
Let the dead bury their own dead.

Why is this difficult? How can the dead bury anyone, and why would Jesus appear to place following him ahead of the important family obligation of burying a parent?

Illustration of Hate Father and Mother

Hate Father and Mother

  Luke 14:26; Matthew 10:37
Language Figurative Language Ethical
If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother...

Why is this difficult? Does Jesus actually require his followers to hate their families and even their own lives?

Illustration of Not Peace, but a Sword

Not Peace, but a Sword

  Matthew 10:34-36; Luke 12:51-53
Figurative Language Apparent Tension
I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.

Why is this difficult? How can Jesus, whose teaching repeatedly emphasizes peace and love, say that he came to bring a sword and division?

Illustration of Tear Out Your Eye

Tear Out Your Eye

  Matthew 5:29-30; Mark 9:43-48
Figurative Language Ethical
If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out.

Why is this difficult? Is Jesus actually commanding bodily mutilation, or is his shocking language intended to communicate something else?

Illustration of Turn the Other Cheek

Turn the Other Cheek

  Matthew 5:38-39; Luke 6:29
Cultural Context Ethical
If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.

Why is this difficult? Does Jesus require passive submission to wrongdoing, prohibit self-defense, or forbid retaliation in a more particular sense?

Illustration of Give to Everyone Who Asks

Give to Everyone Who Asks

  Matthew 5:42; Luke 6:30
Ethical
Give to everyone who asks of you.

Why is this difficult? Is this an unrestricted command to give whatever anyone requests, regardless of circumstances or consequences?